John Alexander's Privacy Guarantee

Updated July 23, 2010


I believe online privacy is particularly important for a site such as this one that teaches intimacy skills, which is certainly something you don't want other people to know you were looking for. This is especially important in this modern age where your every click seems to be tracked in some database somewhere.

In order to preserve your privacy, I do not collect any more information than is absolutely necessary, and I take careful measures to not store any personally-identifiable information about you, except when all three of these conditions apply:

  1. You have provided it
  2. You have given me permission to do so
  3. It is necessary to do so.

I also do not disclose your name or any other information about you to outside parties.

Below you'll see exactly how I handle purchases, information submitted to me, how I protect your data, and my anti-spam policy. Thank you!


This is a very strict privacy policy. This policy applies to,,, and all subsidiaries.

My privacy policy is very simple: I honor your privacy! If you'd like to know the details, read on.

If you have any questions about this privacy policy, feel free to contact me.
My postal address is
John Alexander Enterprises, Inc.
3578 Hartsel Drive Unit E374
Colorado Springs, CO 80920

I can be reached via email at

Or you can reach me by telephone at 1-719-357-5694. (But email is by far the best way to reach me!)

Information I Collect From You,
And How I Use It

Like a lot of websites, I usually send cookies to your browser when you visit my site. A cookie is simply a small file that identifies your browser. I use the cookies to track overall trends so that I can improve the user experience of customers who browse my site. Cookies are used to record session information, such as items that consumers add to their shopping cart, record user-specific information on what pages users access or visit. The information I collect is used for internal review to improve the content of my website, and is then discarded.

Cookies are entirely optional, and if you disable cookies on your Internet browser, you should still be able to browse my site with no problem.

3rd Party Cookies

When you browse to my site from a search engine, sometimes there may be 3rd party cookies sent to your browser program, specifically from Google. I use Google Adwords for advertising my site. When someone clicks one one of my ads, I use Google's "conversion tracking" system to see which ads have gotten success results. You can read Google's privacy policy with respect to ads, including how to opt out of Google's advertising cookies, here. (Link opens in a new window.)

Google, as a third party vendor, may also use what it calls the "DART cookie" for ad serving. Google's use of the DART cookie enables it to serve ads to website visitors across the internet. Again, you may opt out of the use of the DART cookie by visiting the Google advertising privacy policies. (Link opens in a new window.)

Purchasing Privately

When you make your purchase, you get taken to a shopping cart hosted by Clickbank, a third party company which processes almost all of my payments. You may read Clickbank's privacy policy here. (Link opens in a new window.)

I do not store your credit card information. All transactions you place on my shopping cart are handled by Clickbank.

When you complete your purchase, you will be taken to a special confidential page where you can download "How to Be Her Best Lover Ever."

Sites Linking Here

I have a few affiliates through Clickbank's system who send users to my website. My affiliates may have different privacy policies than I do. However, with respect to this site, my privacy policy is in effect no matter where you browsed in from.

Protecting Your Email Address

In certain instances (such as when you sign up for product updates after your purchase my ebook) I collect information that can be personally identifying. For the most part, this is limited to your first name and email address that you enter into a subscription form to receive product updates and bonus reports. If you do not want to receive email from me in the future, please let me know by emailing me or simply clicking the "unsubscribe" link in the email, or by writing me at the postal address listed above.

Because my newsletter requires verified opt-in confirmation (to prevent spam problems),, the autoresponder I use, keeps track of the IP address you use to confirm you wish to sign up for the newsletter. You can read Aweber's privacy policy at (Link opens a new window.)

When you write to my support email address (the one listed at my contact page), I may store the email you sent me so that I'll have it in my records, especially if you offer a testimonial praising my book.

My Strict Anti-Spam Policy

In plain English, I hate spam as much as you do. This is especially true since I run an e-commerce site and get 50-100 spams every day!

If you do not want to receive email from me in the future, please click the unsubscribe link in any email newsletter you receive from me, or simply reply to the email to let me know you do not want to receive any more email from me. (The quickest way to unsubscribe is to click the "unsubscribe" link at the bottom of the email, because that unsubscribes you automatically. Otherwise I have to do it manually.)

Your Other Information

If you supply me with your postal address you will only receive the information for which you provided me your address. (I do not currently ask for your postal address, however.) Generally email is my preferred method of communication.

Persons who supply me with their telephone number will only receive telephone contact from me with information regarding orders they have placed online. (I do not currently ask for your telephone number, however.) Again, email is generally my preferred form of communication.

To summarize, the information I collect is used to improve the content of my website and to send customers my newsletter and product updates.

How I Keep Your Information Secure

I employ strong measures to protect against the theft, misuse or abuse of the information I collect. My data I keep locally is offline, password-protected and encrypted. I have appropriate security measures in place in my physical facility to protect against the loss, misuse or alteration of information that I have collected from you at my site.

The customer data Clickbank, my payment processor, collects is protected by high security standards which you can read about here, but includes powerful encryption, secure authentication, and aggressive fraud analysis.

I Will Never Disclose Your Information

I will never sell, share, rent, give or in any way disclose to a third party any of the information I might have about you. The only exception might be if you asked me to, or if there were some kind of court order compelling me to.

Changes to this Privacy Guarantee

From time to time, I may change this privacy guarantee. If that happens, I will post the policy changes to my site to notify you of these changes and provide you with the ability to opt out of these new uses. If you are concerned about how your information is used, you should check back at this page periodically.

How You Can Find Out What Information I Have Collected About You

Upon request I provide you with information, if any, that I maintain about you, any contact information (e.g., name, address, etc.) that I maintain about you, and a description of information that I maintain about you.

You can access this information by emailing me at the above address or writing to me at the above address. You can have this information corrected by sending me email at the above address or writing to me at the above address.

General Note About Privacy

While I am a strong proponent of privacy, I must caution you that very little of what you do online is truly private. Your online activity is constantly being tracked by ISPs, government agencies, corporations such as Google or Microsoft, and by your employer. However, please be aware that I do everything I can on my end to ensure your privacy.

Best regards,

John Alexander
Author, How To Be Her Best Lover Ever

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